Friday, July 29, 2011

You are Beautiful..then have a sex appeal!

You know..some people will say..OMG!! why is Sex appeal..what is that..hihihihi.. Looks like about sex things?..hahhaha..don't worry..I'm not gonna say that how you are good in bed....(please don't ask me about that).. okay..and as always..when I curios about something..I want to now more..so I ask my Prof Google... and here I get about this..and this I'm gonna tell you about SEX APPEAL:
Seductive, fetching, and something that improves with experience – it's sex appeal. Not limited to the beautiful people, sex appeal is something within everyone's reach no matter your looks and age. It derives from unabashed self-confidence, healthy self-love, and a belief that you're worth knowing.


How you talk, dress, move, and behave will ultimately define whether you've got sex appeal... or not. Whether you're keen to improve your sex appeal for romantic or social reasons (and really, you should focus on developing it for both reasons), you can't go wrong by being willing to get started.
Wow isn't it good for you..Hey beautiful woman...you are beautiful..then have a sex appeal...make it..create it..remember..as my posting before..do it diligently..and just enjoy it..
Enjoy this 7 things about have a sex appeal in yourself!!
  • Understand what makes people truly attractive
Sometimes, when we assessing what makes up sex appeal (aka the "X factor", the "It factor", the "inner glow", etc.), don't make the mistake of assuming that looks are everything. Sex appeal is the entire package – making the most of your positive features, feeling comfortable in your skin (or as the French say, "bien dans sa peau"), and putting your best self forward for others to appreciate.  Rather, sex appeal is about giving; principally, and the very fact that just being around a confident and insecurity-free you makes others feel good about themselves. Remember ladies...your "glow" is a gift to others; and while not everyone will accept this gift, most people will be open to the warmth of being made to feel good about themselves, even if it's just for a few moments in your presence. Ultimately, sex appeal causes you to glow more brightly than most; you're magnetic and appealing because you're self-assured.

  • Dress with style
 I like this..hey..in my column just me..I said that.. my style is fashionable.. be fashionable!! It doesn't matter that you might be big boned, small waisted, tall, short, or stuck with a nose you wish you could trade for another. Good groomin stylish dressing, and careful deportment will do more for you than a supposedly perfect body shape. Coco Chanel once quipped: "If a woman is not well dressed, one notices her for her outfit, but if she's impeccably dressed, it's she that one notices." For women, don't overdo the makeup. Too much will always be unflattering. Do not to buy expensive clothes..shoes..etc..just you should comfortable with it!!


  • Love your body
This is I like the most!! Hey..our body is not a trash..you can fill it with anything... love your body...you can't do anything when you are sick, isn't it? If you're not healthy or happy with your current body, do something about it. But in the process of fixing that aspect of yourself, you don't need to let your personality sink. And as I shared also in my previous posting.. exercise ladies..at least..do jogging or walking for 15-30 minutes.. make it as comfort..and just enjoy it..and..remember..do it diligently...^_*

  • Be Smart and sexy
Hey...of course you should have this..I can't imagine that beauty woman physcally but...looks...dumb..LOL...or when people talk with you and you just got blank and you answer with have no related with the questions...OMG..!! what a shame for me!! You know.. sex appeal is about both looking your best and thinking your best. Put your smarts out there as well as your gorgeousness; denying your intelligence is a foolhardy way to aim to be appealing. Make it clear from the outset that you think for yourself and never shy away from making self decision.. Never say Never to knowledege..to studying..keep learning ladies.. you know..when you are smart..you look so sexy.. like my view about man that... smart man..is sexy...hahahha... *blushing*

  • Feel Good about yourself
Have you ever feel bad about yourself.. Ladies..it will impact other people around you.. (I have been struggling with this..because I'm a moody woman..and trying to self control about my moody also hard for me). When you feel good about yourself and believe in your own worth, it shows. This is appealing because people feel instantly at ease with you, as they sense they don't have to reassure you or tiptoe around you. So relax, be comfortable about yourself, and let your confidence show up. Tell yourself that you're beautiful inside and out, wonderful to know, and think of all the great reasons why people will like you for you. Confidence is the most important source of sex appeal, so if yours is feeling a bit low, it's an ideal time to improve it. Don't let bad condition, environment around you will influence you to feel bad and do bad.. I remember when Macaulay Culkin in Home Alone in bathroom sing ..I feel Good....daradadaam... I feel Good... yeayyy let's sing it Ladies..when we start our day..or even we have bad situation with friends, boss, etc.


  • Be Positive, upbeat, and a person who smiles and laughs a lot
You know..I tried to always think postive to all of happen in my life..that..God has made everything beautiful..and he has Best plan for me..So let's it come from your inside first...think Positive!! Laughter and smiling have a lot to do with sex appeal. Everyone wants to feel better about themselves and about the world around them. Smiles and laughter help create that positive environment and reassure people that you're fun to be with and that you're going to do your best to see the positive side of things even during challenging times

  • Love people and do it with sincere  
Smile on the inside. Force a smile even if you're not in the mood for it (think of yourself at your best) and notice how your body starts to change. Carry around an inner smile and it will express itself in the way you hold your body, walk, and react with daily life. Also learn how to smile when you don't feel you don't feel you can. This step follows directly from loving human beings for who they are. Always look for the good in people and remind them of why they're fantastic to be around. It's very hard to resist someone who notices the best in you. Once you feel good about yourself and confident in your own direction, your senses will awaken to seeing the good in others and it'll be easy to point out what you appreciate them. I admire 1 people in my office..even he is like in other part/country of my office..he is a leader..with sincere heart..when he talked..smile..i can feel his sincerity..So warm and it feel good..he always remember a name.. and talk with us with great smile and soooo..sincere.. Ooh.. I hope I could just like him...it's kinda hard for me.. But let;s try ladies!! and remember receive all compliments with a hearty Thank You! Go Sincere heart!


  • Just Believe in yourself
Finally, but most importantly, sex appeal isn't something to labor over. The hard work is done when you build your self confidence, and to love others for who they are, and find your purpose in this world. Sex appeal tends to exude as the fruit of your ongoing personal development. So the best advice after all this advice is to not try too hard to have sex appeal. Provided you've learned to love yourself and others well, it'll come naturally.


Most of all..We are trying..and let's do it DILIGENTLY and ENJOY it!! You are beautiful...
XOXO
PinkLady

From Beauty is Pain to Beauty is a CHOICE

Hey all beautiful People...beautiful men and women... I'm very interested with this word " Beauty is Pain" ... I have think and learn... and asking myself about this..is it true? Is it right..
  • My point of View about Beauty is Pain

Okay..this past 2 weeks I'm surprised that I have quite over weight..I have 55 kilograms or 121 lb. When I'm in university my normal weight is 101 lb. OMG..I'm surprised..this pas6 6 years I gained 7 kgs or 20 lb. So, I realized time to be discipline..and inspired from some movie..when a girl with over weight come to her teacher and asked how to lose the weight and her beauty teacher said that " it depends on your will power. Look also is a talent thats become its something that you can change the effort. There's no ugly woman in this world, only lazy woman. Starting today all you have to do is remain DILIGENT"
And I felt inspired what she said.. Be Diligent Steph! You should diligent..be discipline with what is your target!
And that time..you know.. I encourage my self...to be diligent..And you know..It isn't easy...and for me I gained pain...Pain??? mmmhh..hell yeah!! why? It's pain when I see chocolate and I've ignored it...It's my food..my fave food...or when you see your friends after offices with their work or going home..and me? I took afternoon jogging about 50 minutes..Running..walking.. and it took everyday and sit up..( this exercise I usually hate..the hardest part)!! And when you see your friends eat their lunch whatever they like..and I just take small  part.. and at evening...I only take wheat bread and apple for dinner...And hey...it's painful...Why I do this..I want health and of course lose weight...and of course it's related with beauty right??
Okay..let me say again another example..when you also buy some make up or body fragrance, lotions, etc.. it cost money right?? why you do that? and..it's related with beauty..physical beauty ...am I right?
But..hey..I'm not stop here...Okay..let's say it pain..but..here I said to you about the key of  "pain" related with exercise or food..when I'm doing it..what is make me still want to do that until now...The key is..ENJOY IT!!
But..how come pain could make you enjoy? Hey...take it easy...find your best part of your life that you like the most!!..Okay lemme say this.. When I do jogging..or exercise.. I want I'm with my MUSIC..listening music..( for me Music is my soul) and enjoy it so much!!!
Okay...when MUSIC is not enough..I find where is the best part of place for jogging...I choose sport field near to my house..because..I can see the sky..clouds..and the most..I could see SUNSET.. (did you know that for me my best view is Sunset?) or..related with food..hey..I could take dark chocolate..it's good and have less fat and good for diet..or I took peanut..for snack..for fruit..I took my fave apple..And hey..I could eat as much I could in my breakfast..it didnt cost weight..it is good to eat more at breakfast...Breakfast like you a Queen..Lunch like you are a Commoner and Dinner like a Beggar..and..like I said before..do it DILIGENTLY!.. And find keys..what is could make you enjoy? I enjoy eat tofu as my dinner..because I like tofu..and I still took choco jam..Hey..enjoy the food..Enjoy what you are doing!!
  • My point of View about Beauty is A Choice

Now it's about beauty is a Choice.. Okay.. this morning when I asked my self about Beauty is Pain..I got this quotes..that really inspired me..Yeay..it's come at the right time..
"Beauty is a choice. It's how you respect, accept, and appreciate the body God has given to you. Morning all beauty and handsome people"
Hey..that's the point..how you see yourself...Are you respect your body? There's no ugly man here..God never create ugly man in this world..only a lazy man...how you respect..accept and appreciate..It's for all part..physically, mentally, intelectually, and spiritually. It's your choice!!
I choose to develop all of it..I want that I'm beauty in all part ^_^ I want to be beauty and health (physically)..I want to be smart woman (intelectually)..I want to be tough (mentally).. I want to be a woman with strong relationship with God ( Spiritually) and I want to be best woman for my friends, for my family (socially).... Wow how could I make it happen? remember.. don't be lazy...we must make good for all of it..we need exercise..we need to learn..we need time..we need understanding.. and keep spirit...REMEMBER do it DILIGENTLY..and JUST ENJOY it!
So....Hey Beauty is a choice..So Please choose a good choice!!

 XOXO
PinkLady

Thursday, July 28, 2011

My Heart vs My Brain

I wish My Brain will win and didn't easy to surrender like this pic!
Just random thought suddenly come to my mind this afternoon. Oh My Gosh...I still thinking of him..As my preview post about Mr. Wrong has lose and I've win. My Brain has good enough to me to win this battle. Battle with my heart which has fell in love to Mr. Wrong. I think it's over but sometimes it's suddenly appear..Funny, isn't it?

Okay and I got some quotes came to my mind..
Here is the quotes:
"We can't lie our heart, even how brave your brain to order your heart to erase, it's not! Your heart didn't erase, only hide and keep it well inside!"

I think I will create more quotes when I'm in love *my mellow side*
While I want to share to this blog usually I like to find picture that describe my mind or to explain about my blogging..(because I'm a audio-visual learner..so I think It's good to share with some pic so I could remember and more understand) I searching to Prof. Google about the image..AND..wow..It's realy describe my mind about the battle of mine...My Heart vs My Brain..

so funny..Yeh it's my brain and my heart still in battle!

To Mr. Wrong, my brain will say NO because to many of consideration, But my heart just know how to say YES, when I fall in love with you! FUNNY!

I hope my brain will WIN and my heart will lose!
The most pic I like and really describe my love battle with another Mr. Wrong! My Heart is want it so badly but My Brain always remind me, pull my heart and say " NO! Last time you got hurt"
 XOXO
PinkLady

Friday, July 22, 2011

Let LOVE in to my heart

When I open some web..This link is show up! hhahaha..I've laughed at my self. This word is like my friends always tell me..And sometimes I'm bored with this..They always tell me...." Hey ..let love in..into your heart..Open your mind, open your heart...bla..bla..bla.." As a single lady... (Feels like Single Lady by Beyonce in my mind..LOL).. some people..always tell me about this...and give suggestions and it's all about this.. Yeah..and before I opened it ..Mr Wrong already in and I didnt realized it! Yeah..Good..But Mr. Wrong already lose and I become me again.. and this suggestion is quite good..Okay I will try it...
1. Love without Measure. Putting limits on love is the first step to failing at actually loving someone unconditionally. Despite letdowns and past heartbreak, choose to love infinitely and without boundaries.


2.  Open Your Mind. Sometimes we can't put our minds around love ... we can't know why someone chooses to love us. Therefore, open your mind to the possibility of love. Whether it's with the opposite sex, or with a family member or friend, choose first to love them.


3. Open Your Heart. Once you've learned to open your mind to the possibility of love, open your heart to love back, and in return, let love in. Love is the greatest of all gifts; when you choose to give it away, your heart is not only full, but it is also healed from past hurt.

4.  Let Love In. Once you've learned to open your mind and heart to the possibility of loving someone else, learn to let someone else love you back. Accept the possibility that love is knocking at your door; open it and embrace all the benefits of love from another.


From now on... I let love in... Come love..Here I waiting for you...I believe that this Mr. Wrong came to my life is the way to let new loves come and I believe when he comes...he is the Right One!... Please for me ya friends..

  XOXO
PinkLady 

How Ms. Sleep win the battle from Mr. Wrong?

While this feeling still in my mind related with my Mr.Wrong..I found this good article..that really help me about the details...LOL...Hell yeah..I think this also confirmed me about he is the Mr.Wrong...Ms. Sleep now win after battle with Mr.Wrong. Here is the article:
When you are in love with the wrong person or in a relationship with someone who does not have the same level of sensitivity and intelligence as you and doesn't care for you enough, you must use your logic in order to get rid of this feeling that is not good for you.
1. There are so many people in this world! Why do you insist on loving the wrong person?
I know it doesn't depend on you, but you must help the situation agreeing on paying attention to your reasoning.
2.  Sensitivity is a basic need for the human being. In fact, it is the basis of healthy logic because without sensitivity a human being is not human, but one becomes only a brain without feelings that is not in contact with the objects or people around it.
However, reasoning is necessary as well. When your feelings contradict your reasoning you must look at your present reality without letting your feelings elude you and also, without letting your cold rationalism decide everything based only on what should be correct according to your thoughts.
If you love someone dearly but you are suffering and feeling rejected, despised, betrayed, etc., what is the pleasure in continuing to love this person? This is a misfortune for you.

3.  Find someone else. However, don't play games: be straightforward. Don't try to find someone else while still in the problematic relationship. Don't mix problems because you'll face a disaster in the end. Clearly define your position.
Stay alone for a while. Think; try to discover how you really feel about everything. Feel free, without the burden of the problematic love or relationship. Say to yourself: I don't need him or her.

4.  This world is very big!
Don't start thinking about how special this person is, how you will miss certain things about the person, but think about his or her shortcomings. Remember all the times that they made you suffer, how you felt and for how long. Don't be naïve and imagine that "now" he or she will change...
Be serious. This is your life, your happiness.

5.  Be with someone just in order to have someone who is not really with you, is something obviously stupid.
Anyone can understand that outside the scene, but when you are the main character in the situation, things are totally different... You cannot see the truth.
Therefore, try to see everything from distance. Imagine that you are not the main character but you are observing the story of someone else when you think about your own love story.
Be objective, focus on the essential points and analyze everything.


Yeah ...I feel free..and my brain now in recovery heal and in process to order my heart to move on and completely erase Mr. Wrong in my heart and mind. Ms. Sleep last nite has a good sleep..with no allergic or other reason...Hey ... Mr. Wrong you LOSE!
 
XOXO
PinkLady

Compassion and Me :)

True Colors in Compassion East Indonesia (Feb2010)
 From now I promise to write this blog as many as I can.. I mean all that come in my mind I will share it for you. This mellow things or this feelings..make me want to write everything that come to my mind... Okay now..actually yesterday this things come to my mind :)....yeay..about me and my office. I have been work in Compassion International in East Indonesia Office. This such an Christian NGO. We serve the the poor. children in poverty and have commitment to children in the world. And in 2005 has opened in Manado to serve the children in poverty in East Indonesia..Yes..we serve area for Celebes (Sulawesi) Island, Borneo (Kalimantan), Halmahera, Ambon and Papua Island...


I have been work here since I fresh graduated. In Nov 2005 I have joined this office as Finance Associate with status Contract worker. and 8 months later in same position but as permanent staff :) and this time I also did an Audit things..as Project Auditor...this is the best things I like..not only behind the desk but I could explore some part in East Indonesia. Tobello, Ternate, Sanghihe, Sentani, Wamena, and other rural area..That the most beautiful things!! I could visit the project ...In this part I also could get certificate training as Partnership Auditor in Chiang Mai Thailand... 8 months later I has promoted as Accountant (formerly Finance Specialist) and that's my position until now... (feel like I write CV..hehehe).
And I have enjoy have travelling to some part of compassion in Thailand, Phillipines, Bandung, Hong Kong..
I have up and down in this works...But I love all friends I have here...Most of my BFF were here and still here in this office... I have been blessed work in this office..I have learn and a lot of experiences in here..and taught me about life, leadership, character..etc..It's like my second home..and my school...I can be like who I am this Compassion has big part of it..Thank You God..

This is MS team per Apr 2011

All Compassion Staff per Apr 2011

MS Dept per May 2011

My Finance team

MS Dept team per May 2010 with Ps.F.Potabuga
            XOXO
          PinkLady

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Ms. Sleep vs Mr. Wrong

Last nite I can't sleep. Yeah because of my nose. I feel I can't breath when I sleeping. I feel so sleepy but when I try to sleep it's hardly enough. I have tried to double my pillow so it more high so I can breath smoothly. But..still I can't sleep. Yeah due to the dust allergic of mine. This past weeks Lokon and Soputan mountain has erupted and have impact the weather. The dust of the mountain (near with my area there is Lokon Mountain has erupted and create dust in my area everywhere) and looks like my nose become sensitive ..I have my allergic with my nose and yeah..now every nite I hardly to breathe.
Second reason, still my heart and mind can't work well. This Mr. Wrong really control my mind and heart. I know if this called fallin love or just because of because may be ..(There is story that I won't to share on this blog, sorry) But I really can't stop thinking about him..What if he is..what if he do..what if he will..a lot of what if! Dam* I feel I'm like teenager! Yeah but I know myself. This won't be long! I mean I will through this soon. I really don't know with this feeling. And because this is Mr. Wrong so this is also not good. This feeling and this wishing for me and him. Feels like all the songs from the music I've listened were me and him as a video clip...LOL...
This is crazy..I'm going crazy..This is not me! I need some breath..Hey allergic please be nice to me..don't show up..let me breath smoothly. I have problem with my mind and heart..could you understand and be nice to have a good cooperation. At least let me have a good sleep every nite! I just need sleep so my brain could work well.


This is not love..this is not allergic..This is my confusion...

It's not about fallin..it's not about the weather..It's about my complicated...


XOXO
PinkLady

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

My Mellow Side

This past days...I have been mellow for something.. yeah for everything...everytime I look or hear something...I feel so mellow..deeply mellow...And my behavior could change significantly in one second..yeah but of course just within myself. I am still I am when I am with others...I'm the type of the person that even my tears down I will try to hide it hardly. I will try to give smile all be quite than tell my deep personal area.

Sometimes I just want that I want to sleep and hear music all my day long. I want to writing.. I would like to write diary as my hobby when I'm in high school. Which only my diary know everything. I'm really just dont want to do anything. I want my quite time and it's just me and my music. If I could Imagine..I want have time and I can seeing Sunset and with mymusic...yeahh..what a beautiful dream...
I also have a dream that it's really killing me..yeah..killing my mind..my brain to order to forget and erase it. Killing my brain skills to order my heart to let it go....Killing my time to do something else..Killing me softly...day by day until now..It's hardly to breath...Hardly to said..Hardly to think...It just hard and know that it couldnt be real, hurt me so much..and create painful deeply. I wish..I pray..yeah..But still can't...Even God will not allow this happen..yeah..so painful..And it's like suicide..I kill my self..I let my self in hurt and pain so deeply again...again I'm become a foolish...I'm so foolish in love..again...let my self being a fool!! But I hope my brain could recover soon..to order my heart to being okay ...
Dear..Mr. Wrong...I'm sorry I love you... Please go...Please..I released you..I'm happy for you..Please dont let I am being more deeply fall..I dont want to fall...Really..please...

You know what's the one wrong thing we all do when we FALL IN LOVE?
WE EXPECT
And it just ruins everything 

Friday, July 8, 2011

My Birthday Gifts

  


Yeah I know this post such a lately posting ^_^ My 28th birthday have passed for 22 days ago and I just posting this birthday gift. Bloggers, this gifts did not received on my birthday. It was  come one by one...Hihihi..but I still happy. All just come lately. First give come from my 2 bestie Cibul and Gia! Can you imagine that they totally forgot my birthday and I told them the day after my birthday!! But they're surprised me by came to my office, bring this birthday Gift to me... And the other gifts just come one by one...Yeay!!

My gifts from my Bestie Inem aka Gia and Ijah aka Cibul
Birthday Cake and CD Bruno Mars

This is my Gift on my birthday from bestie Linda and K lita

Linda gave me Pink Cat pillow and K lita gave me a book


This is my Gift from my mentor and my ex manager Pak Robby, Pink Headset!
Last but not least from my bestie Anita..such a multifunction wallet! for handphone, cards, wallet, etc!
I'm so blessed with my 28th birthday last month. In the morning, in my office, in devotion, they were guests from Colorado, took video for my birthday. All office staffs celebrated it, when come to my turn to share something, I read my poem "My 28th Footprints " (you can see my post about it), and my tears went down, I couldn't hold my tears, and some of my office mates also cried...they just touched with my poem. I've cried because I've blessed on that day, last year I've spent alone training in Jakarta, and no one knew my birthday, but this year all celebrate with some video taped made by Emily and Tim from GMC. I also have new friend Emily. I will share more about her and my next blog. Yeay I will be more often to update it! (no more busy time..hihihi)

xoxo
PinkLady