Happy Mothers Day, Mother!

Mother...
That's what I called for my Mom...I start called her Mother since in Junior high when I practicing English..before I called her Mama... :) Ah...today when I open twitter..I just see.. so many words and quotes about Mothers Day..about how our mother is our hero, angel, best friend...Yes..she is everything for us isn't it?
Sometimes we angry, fed up, dissapointed for she was done to us!!And I am too...hehehe ..We always fight for a small things..me and mom always have different view and opininion...and she always me to do as she said..and I always say no..The most things we always fight about fashion...we have verryyy different taste about it!! LOL!! and sometimes I forced to agree with her! but sometimes I was stubborn!! But...the lesson is..I know more fashion because of her..!!! When i'm in High School I dont like fashion..I'm and easy going..dont like about how to be trendy..but my Mom taugh me about that..she's an expert about it!! I'm little boyish in high school in fashion..I dont care about my style or appearance at high school while my friends in high School are models..yes...I'm in prestige and famous High School which are many students are rich, models, etc!!And I really dont care about it! but day by day...my Mom taugh me more about fashion..and then in University..I learnt a little about fashion..be a little stylish...and after graduated I learnt make up...and then more and more I become an expert  now!! wahahha..because she always push me to be a stylish and now I'm a stylish lady..some people said it..hehehe
Until now..she always bought me a dress or clothes..and always ask me to wear it!! First I always reject..because sometimes it's not my style..but...at last..I wear it..LOL....
Yeah..she's my teacher in fashion stylist..even we always different opinion but..I'm glad because of her ...because of my Mom..

It's only simple things..many other things....she always push me to be the best...even sometimes I disagree with her..but..finally i realized..she's right..she's my best friends..she's my everything..
Here my tribute to her.....2 songs that really represent me and my Mom...I love you Mother!!

Spice Girls - Mama 

She used to be my only enemy and never let me be free

Catching me in places that I knew I should'nt be

Every other day I crossed the line I didn't mean to be so bad

I never thought you would become the friend I never had

Back then I didn't know why

Why you were misunderstood

So now I see through your eyes

All that you did was love

Mama I love you.Mama I care

Mama I love you . Mama my friend. You're my friend

I didn't want to hear it then but I'm not ashamed to say it now

Every little thing you said and did was right for me

I had a lot of to think about,about the way I usedto be

Never had a sense of my responsibility

Back then I didn't know why

Why you were misunderstood

So now I see through your eyes, all that you did was love

Mama, I love you. Mama, I care

Mama, I love you. Mama ,my friend. You're my friend

But now I'm sure I know why,

Why you were misunderstood

So now I see through your eyes

All I can give you is love is love

Mama I love you. Mama, I care

Mama, I love you. Mama, my friend,You're my friend

Mama, I love you, Mama ,I care

Mama, I love you, Mama, my friend, You're my friend

Boyz II Men - A Song for Mama

You taught me everything

And everything you’ve given me

I always keep it inside

You’re the driving force in my life, yeah

There isn’t anything  Or anyone I can be

And it just wouldn’t feel right

If I didn’t have you by my side

You were there for me to love and care for me

When skies were grey

Whenever I was down

You were always there to comfort me

And no one else can be what you have been to me

You’ll always be you always will be the girl

In my life for all times

Mama, mama you know I love you

Oh you know I love you

Mama, mama you’re the queen of my heart

Your love is like

Tears from the stars

Mama, I just want you to know

Lovin’ you is like food to my soul

You’re always down for me

Have always been around for me even when I was bad

You showed me right from my wrong

Yes you did

And you took up for me

When everyone was downin’ me

You always did understand

You gave me strength to go on

There was so many times

Looking back when I was so afraid

And then you come to me

And say to me I can face anything

And no one else can do

What you have done for me

You’ll always be

You will always be the girl in my life

Bloggers,

We must respect our mother..we must honor her...every religion teach that to all children...

In Christian, Bible teach children to remember this :

Honour your father and your mother so that you may live long in the land that Yahweh your God is giving you.

– Exodus 20:12 (NJB)


Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.”[46]
– Ephesians 6:1-2 (ESV)

Whatever the conditions of our mother, she will always love us under any circumstances. Continue to believe that what she is doing is for our best. Appreciate and honor her ..!!Just remember that "Heaven is under the heel of the mother"- (proverb in Indonesia)

I read some tips and some with my opinion how to enjoy our time with our Mother :
1. Give mom a vacation


Don't think Hawaii. Think of a day away from the kitchen. Or the home. Give her a vacation from the home where for her, most of the seemingly endless housework is done daily. Or, if she doesn't want that, start doing your share around the house. Maybe you could start giving her one day of the week off, when she does no cooking or household chores. Remember, fathers and husbands work hard at the office, but they get a two-day weekend in most cases. Moms usually don't even get a full day off. And if they are also working outside, it's like two full time jobs.

2. Let's hear her life story: a mom's circle

She may have read you bedtime stories when you were small, but now it's time for her to tell you a different story-about herself. Make a mom's circle at home in which you ask her to tell her life story. Mom's circle may actually turn into a project: one family member could write this up into a report, another could make a story book out of it and a third could video/audio record it. A mom's circle may become an ongoing family tradition.

3. Try beating mom's cooking

While most moms ask their kids what they want to eat, turn the tables around and do the same for her. Is there special food your mom likes? Buy or prepare that food for her (if you are not the best of cooks, maybe it's safer to just buy it). (My comments : the hardest part for me to do this!! LOL)

4. Arrange a mammogram or medical check up for her or accompany her to go to the doctor 

Every three minutes, a woman in America is diagnosed with breast cancer.
A woman's chances of developing breast cancer increases with age. The National Cancer Institute recommends women age 40 and over be screened with mammography every one to two years. It also advises that women at higher risk of breast cancer get medical advice before they are 40 about when to begin screening and about the frequency of their screening. Do this for your mom, so you can see her spend the rest of her life in good health.

6. Is your mom a bookworm? What is her hobbies? Find it!

If so, buy a small cabinet and buy all of the books you can afford. Then take it to her home and set it up for her. My Mom like fashion..she like shopping, buy her dress, she will be happy!! what is your Mom's hobbies? Search the best for her what she likes the most!!

7. Pray and fasting for her.
Pray every night before you sleep or spend time pray together with her and always bless her. When we are a child she always blessed us before we go, right? It's our time to bless her! And try fasting for a day and keep thinking and praying for her. Ask Gid that He guides her and ask Him what you can do to help her understand her own Creator.

8. If your relationship has not been the best with your Mom

If your relationship with your mom has not been the best, sit down in front of a year-long calendar or planner and mark down dates and things which you can plan to improve this relationship. Start off by making a formal first appointment. Then pick dates on which you can keep contact with her and build your relationship on a regular basis. Dinner or go to movie togehter..spend more time with her..

9. If mom is not alive

If your mom is not alive, visit her relatives and friends and ask what you can do for them. You also can go to your mom's sister..(aunties) and feel like she is you mom..and have some time with her :) and you can feel that your mom is also with you!!



10. Hugs or kisses...is physical affection

Sometimes..we are shy to hugs or maybe some of us not an usual things to do this..Yes..I do..I'm not a person who always this escpeciall when I growth up..May be when I a littleF, I always do this..every day..But now? It's rare..very rarely...
From now on..I will hugs my Mom and Kisses her as much I can :)...
When we're a baby..Her hugs can warm up, stop our tears and crying, and can make us smile?
How about now? how about our hugs? It's just a same..She also want us to do that for us!!
Hugs is a best medicine

Say it to our mothers...Let's celebrate it together!!

 I            L    O   V   E        Y    O   U        M    O    T    H    E   R

xoxo

PinkLady

I'm a Shoes Lover ever!!

Shoes history

Shoes? I loooveee... shoes so much...So rare use a sandals..cause I do adore shoes...And..have you know or noted that shoes have a very fascinating history. I will tell you a bit about story of the shoes. Long time ago, there is evidence to prove that foot covering was one of the first things made by our primitive ancestors. The reason was to protect their feet from the serrated rocks, burning sands, and rocky terrain on which they roamed in pursuit of food and shelter. And also the history of human growth shows that the importance of protecting the foot was recognised early. Records of the Egyptians, the Chinese and other early civilisations, all contain references to shoes.

Did you know that, a shoe, even in modern times, continues to figure in stories. Have you ever heard stories related with shoes? There are ‘Seven League Boots’, ‘Cinderella’, ‘Puss in Boots’, ‘Mercury’s Winged Sandals’ and others and this are well known to all children (include me year ago..hehehe).

Japanese are known to be sandal-wearing people. A sandal indicated the social status of the wearer as characteristic sandals were made for the imperial household, merchants and actors or other professionals.

If in Greeks highlighting design and beauty, while the Romans devised a military type of sandal that enabled their legions to travel on foot throughout the then known world. In the more luxurious days of the late Empire, the sandals were often beautifully shaped with knick-knacks of gold and precious stones.

When we talk about costumes, the shoe always had an important place in it. Until recent years, many shoes were worn only on occasions of great ceremony. Some of these were very extensive in design and decoration, lending meanings and distinction to the official dress of proud wearers.

And the story goes on..they keep growing..

Many shoes designer now..with maannyyy designs...yes..for ladies they always love high heels or flat shoes..I like both..but most I like flat shoes..hehehe....how about you?? See the kind of shoes...

What kind of Shoes I like??

Sling back heel

Sling back heel

The Sling Back Heel: Usually a pointed toe with a strap around the back of the heel. These shoes often cause blisters and toe pain. . These shoes are in high fashion, especially in the spring and summer months.
My comments: I like this .. but I ever have this..but it's broken now!! so sad..but If I find cute like this..may be..I will buy this..as my shoes collection..heheheh


High heels stilleto

 

boots stiletto



Stilettos:  Wedged high heel Nothing is sexier than a woman in stilettos. This is often said before one takes a good look at a lady's foot after a day in high heels!
My comments: I love this .. love stiletto but..I rare use this for hours..especially for a day long..ummphhff.. Even..a comfy stilletto ... very comfy..nope...I dont want to torture my foots..hehehehe..but I loveee stilettto so much!!
  

Open toe shoes: As the name suggests, is an open toe so your toes as your thumb and index finger are visible. The back is generally closed, so that both are used in formal or informal events. The advantage of using these shoes are the foot does not sweat so it is more convenient.

My Comments: Most of my shoes are this shoes..It its comfy to use for hours, even for a day..heheh...I love use this shoes...!! Go to office or go to party...every occasions..sooo...coomfy!

Pump Shoes: Pump shoes refer to pumpkin shoes, it says that because of the toe cap looks like pumpkin and have half round shape. This shoe type is suitable when combined with mini skirt
My Comments: I also this shoes..very cute..I remember .I bought a shoes when I'm in Hong Kong..discount shoes in shoes shop in ladies market there and the quality looks good, when I try..so good, but..I dont understand, it felt the shoes decreased the size..wahha..I felt so uncomfortable and I gave to my Mom, she have smaller 1 size:)

Kitten shoes: The purpose of this shoes is a low-heeled shoes. More suitable when used in casual occasions.
My Comments: I have one shoes..just bought it last weeks..I like this but, I prefer to flat..because use this kitten sometimes the low heels easy to broken and bad, especially when you walk and past the way with stones everywhere..arrghh!!


Wedges Shoes:These shoes can be reserved for those of you who feel uncomfortable with small heels. Wedge Heel with the right kind of shoes meant having the same size from front to back and blend with the soles of shoes. The right shoe is not easily broken and is suitable for those of you who have more weight.
My Comments: I love this shoes..very comfy to used this..you also can run faster with this shoes, I usually use this only for go to office. Not use this if I go to the party. hehehe.
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Flats: Slides, ballet, slippers
My Comments: The most comfy I like..but..some of flat have no comfortrable at all..Some of..are not good..I only choose flat shoes with more comfy, because I will use this always..go to everywhere..It must like a sandals...its like sandal function for me..!!!


 

Fashion Sneakers: no laces, velcro laces, canvas material..it's also said sport shoes :)
My Comments: I have sneakers..always have this..and I adore all converse sneakers..I have this use if I'm in travelling..feels like never wear a shoes..hehehe :) I love converse boot sneakers!

Boots: This shoes covered the whole. Boots is the only up to his ankles, until half-calf and there are up to knee. Like the cowboy, this shoe is perfect when used with jeans.
My Comments: I have a boots, and only use if i go to office and cover with the long pants, sometimes it's not shown if it boots :) I like use boots but will be weird if I wear in my city..like in Korea..I like Korean style with boots and dress :) LOL

Shoes and me
And for me..I have story that..when I feel down..when I look shoes or wear shoes..I feel soo...excited..I enjoy that..especially when i saw the cute ones..I will smiles when i see that shoes..sometimes fell like I'm fall in love to every shoes i saw...but when in the mall...sometimes..okay...mostly..I didnt buy it...hhehe..cause I dont want be a shopaholic..or shoes addict...and it's have a big different between shoes lover and shoes addict..hehehehe....
Sometimes..if i cant buy..sometimes feel sad..but just see the shoes..it's fine..at least...I can see it and try it!! hehahhaha...

And I have a dream..someday..If I have my own house..I want prepare, small room only for my shoes..hehehe..Have you watch Sex in the City movie..I like Carrie's new room..with all shoes are there..hehhe..I like it!! and the scene when she slept and Mr. Big found her there..with her blue shoes!!So sweet!! Isn't it??
Okay..here are my Shoes collection 2010


my stilletto flat shoes



My pump flat shoes



My open toe shoes



My kitten shoes the low heels were hiding :)



My open toe high heels



My wedges shoes-the comfy shoes

  

another open toe shoes



My stilletto shoes

 

Like this pump shoes cos the heels cute



 

My office shoes

I like this model of my stiletto shoes

too smaller when I bought and i give to my mom

I like the heels of my pump shoes

I buy this too smaller and give to my Mom

My sneakers which replace my broken Converse shoes :(

My sport shoes :)

Yeah..that is my shoes collection, I also have others..but..I'm too shy too show it..some are not properly to publish..LOL...the condition of the shoes are so sad..so..only for this shoes.. Even I'm a shoes lover, adjust with my pocket money. I  dont want to spend my money only for shoes..because I have another things...Must be wise in money..I only have some budget for shoes...

If I have limited budget..what should I do..and I'm a shoes lover..for me..I shopping when the shoes are discount..LOL..When I window shopping, and see cute shoes with discount..and the price is good as the quality and comfortable of my foot..I will have no doubt to buy it!! and if i travelling, go to another place..I will buy shoes which is the price is very lower than in my city...in my city all shoes are very expensice..

Sometimes I buy more than 2 if I travelling, only for shoes..I get lower price and good quality with cute model of shoes...How about you shoes lover? :)

Oh ya, because of my house condition have no air conditioner..LOL..the problem of my shoes are always because of the broken shoe leather..So sad...And because of I have no car..only by public transportaition and taxi, some of my shoes are borken with the heels..yeahh...I must pass street with many gravels, sands, and not good condition for shoes...hehehe..

Because I'm far away from the shoes room, I appreciate my shoes by make them a special small cabinet shoes with glasses so I can sse everytime..LOL!!

Here they are :) small shoe cabinet. Simple but I like it!

 

Okay bloggers..and shoes lover..I hope you enjoy my blogs..about shoes..Enjoy it!

xoxo

PinkLady





My Soulmates and my Angel.. they're my BFF "Best Friend Forever"

Yup...I wrote this today as tribute to all best friends.. I have BFF in my lifes...yes..every people have it :)..And I feel lucky to have them in my life..They cheer me up, sometimes hurt me.. yes..they like my soulmates...and I love them ...so much...
Some of my BFF ..time and distance separate us... sometimes..I confess that I rare to contact with them..but lucky to have them..
Okay it's difficult to found my photos with friends in high school cause you know..it means no digital..we used polaroid photos..hehehe..so..lucky my I keep contact with my friends in High School..they're my best friends..
Here my BFF from High School:

Me,Tefa,Cibul,Sally at Cibul W'Day-May2009

Who's foot? see the person below :)

Gia, Tefa, Cibul, Me - Jan 2009 -

 Cibul: We always sit together, who taught me and push me ate pizza.. make me mad and then smile again..:)
Tefa: When in high school, I think more than 2 boys like her..
Sally: My smart girt..my smart friend..she's a doctor now :)
Only 3 persons. We're such a great team...a lot of fun we had..
Gia: My Classmate HS also, but we close become BFF after the reunion time ...2 years ago :)

And I also have some best friends Forever in college:



Alined, Dave, Me, Brayn, Eka - Jkt 2003 -



Me and Moren in Jq W'day - Feb2008-

Linda, Glo, Me at Glo prewed Jul 2010 -They my office roommate -

Alined: my "best share everything" friend ever!! Now, even she's far she's near with my heart (BB) LOL :)
Grace: My roommate, and she is friends since junior high..become BFF when we in one room in dormitory
Linda: I met her coz she is BFF with Eka, and we're become BFF, now we meet everyday, my coworker :)
Eka: Become BFF when we're in summer, class in typing, love her kindness :) until now we still contact :)
Moren: she's always be a good BFF who always open her sister's house to become my place every lunch time when I'm as outsider..not in dormitory :)

When I work I've got BFF also...from co-worker become BFF:

Madam Meis, Ita, Vina, Me at Willy's W'Day - Nov 2010 -

  

Ita, Me, Lita and Maria at Glo's W'day -Nov2010-

both me and Ita -the longest  BFF I've have :)

Rusdy, Me and Maria, Lunch at Mantos - Sep2010 -

Imelda: My 1st tutor in office world, replace her place, and she move to other dept., but stil in 1 office.
Madam Meis: She's my best advisor ever...so wise...
Bobby: My BFF and my enemy..LOL..fight everytime but "baikan" everytime :) he's my "cukong" LOL
Vina: My Bo' myBFF, ..I'm the first person she knew when she came, Lucky me!It's make us BFF
Audy: My very good, patience, and never complain to me..LOL...
Heidy: She's my smart friend..the brave one.Miss her so much..I really loss her contact. Miss u much Heidy..
K Lita: My best share...my BFF after office hour..always go out with her
Maria: Lovely BFF...my BFF after office hour..always go out with her
Grace K: My coffee BFF..we're coffee lover!!Also interest more about photography because of her :)
Gloria: My office room-mate..we always share together..and she was my college friend
Anita: She's not just met at office. She's my neighbour since born :) but become BFF since we're SS teacher (HS) and prayer friend team...
 Rusdy: BFF New comer ... my autis friend...LOL he's a singer record label an known as Rusly...wahaha.

 And When I'm in Post Graduate school I found 2 BFF:

Graduation Day me and Icha - Dec2009-

Eney and Me - 2008 -

Icha: The smart woman :), team traveller in Phuket
Eney: We've BFF since college..LOL...actually when he "close" with my BFF , and met again as classmate


Yes..They're my BFF..they know all my secrets...they know when i'm sad and crying...they my everything...

They are always besides me, even some of then we've separate by a distance, but to remember our time together..to know they're are okay, to tell them everything..or smile together..Make me comforts...
To my BFF which are far away with me..Just know, I Miss you so much, and want to back at our time together..LOL...:) I hope we can meet and spend time togehter..Keep contact .. I love you..Here quote for you :"Good friends are like stars.... You don't always see them, but you know they are always there

 

My Best Friends Forever are my soulmates. Soul-mates are people who bring out the best in you.  They are not perfect but are always perfect for you.
My best friends are always cheer me up, keep my spirit, and always together with me :)
When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there

"True friends are very difficult to find, hard to leave, and impossible to forget just remember"
"Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart”

Yesterday, when I am down...they're with me... they message me, encourage me, listen to me, having a hot chocolate and dinner together just want to listen my problem..Ah..so sweet of you,
I like the quotes from them like this,

Dearest our beloved sista vanny…

Be strong and take courage

Do not fear or be dismayed

For the Lord will go before you

And His light will show the way

And for the One who lives within you will be strong in you today and forever

Nothing can take you out of His hands

Nothing face you that you can’t command

We know you will always be in His love, in His power you will be free

So be strong and take courage….

We love you and always there for you

Ahh...yesterday..I realized..God has give me BFF..as my angels..protect me and comforts me..and remind me about His love to me through my BFF..they're my angel when i feel down..they like oase in the desert..

And I thank God for them..My Best Friends Forever... you are my Soulmates...

 

I           L  O  V  E             Y  O  U

 xoxoxo

PinkLady