There was a boy who is grumpy.
His father then gave a bag of nails and told him to tack a nail at the back fence every time when he is angry.The first day the boy had been nailed 37 nails into the fence.
Then gradually the amount was reduced. He found that was easier to hold his temper than nailed the nails into the fence. Finally came the day when the child did not nail down the fence, which meant he was able to resist the temptation to lose patience.
He tells this to his father with joy. Then his father suggested that he
pull out one nail for each day in which he was not angry.
The days passed and the boy finally told his father that all the nails have been uprooted.
The father led his son to the fence.
You've done well, my son, but look at the holes in this fence.
This fence will not never be the same as before.
When you say things in anger, your words leave marks like these holes
hearts of others. You can hurt someone and then apologized to her many times, but wound
It will remain there even if you have to apologize
Yesterday I have a shocked story. Actually I dont like it much. I feel that morning like a small disaster..heheh..which was made me shaking and crying.. I mean tried harder that time to didnt crying at that time..because I still at office... sorry for not to tell the detail of the story but it made me feel shocked and feel sad. Actually at the time I felt so intimadated by evil and make me felt I'm "smallest and nothing" ... Yes at the time...but at that time..I feel so blessed I have many person who always support me. At that time, I chat by BBM with one friend and she comforts me that everything will be fine, God be with you and she cheer me up (thanks ya Jeung MaLen). At that time, I shared it in Facebook and Twitter...and I'm suprised..I have friends who always strengthen me by words and it helped...I feel better at that time..And I walked out for a while go find some chocolate.. (Yes..Chocolate is also my soulmate...it can make me smile...restore my soul) :)
While I'm at sadness time..I went to Dept. Store and found cute shoes...(Okay as your info..I'm a shoes lover ever... ^_* )..Saw cute shoes make me smile..and feel so comforts...and buy some shoes and pink shirt of course..heheheh... and then I forgot the chocolate..I need to back office soon..No more than 15 minutes out of office at office work time...
Okay and now they (chocolate, pink colour shirt and shoes) Cheer me up..and restore my soul..Cheers....I'm back to real me..Smile :)
But most of all...I know who really restore and strengthen me..God's love shelter me and comforts me..to assure me that He's there and never leave me...Ah..I feel free now...When everything is all wrong, God makes it alright!
Yes...this quotes came at the right time..Felt at that time God told me so.. and remind me with this Learn to forgive. You can never be happy with anger or bitterness in your heart. But how can I forgive when it hurt so much?? :(:(
Yes..Forgive..and try to forget the mark...Even we have pull out the nail and still remain the mark...
PinkLady
--xoxo--
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